so angry because i don't understand why women care about looks so much because it's the reason they call me ugly and undatable ?
i didn't ask for this life. i didn't ask to be treated this way. i have a horrible upbringing and receive horrible comments from women and men and then get told i'm the problem, im the entitled one, and i'm the one with the victim mentality.
society is ******* backwards and you ******* well know it people
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Of course looks matter on some level, but there are a lot of ugly people out there who have partners, so looks aren’t all that matter. Your attitude is what makes you undateable, especially the anger and vitriol you spew. Nobody finds that attitude attractive, regardless of your physical appearance.
You didn't read the fine print. You are both ugly AND undateable. The two are not synonyms. You could be ugly yet highly dateable. You could be handsome and undateable. Therefore the looks are irrelevant to your plight.
I have noticed that looks is important for promotion, both men and women. I also know that we are unaware of our own bias.
Not wanting to conform is perfectly fine, you wouldn't want to be with some one who judges you on your looks instead of your character anyway. The problem is that if you allow yourself to get upset over it, it affects your character and no one wants to be around any one who is angry all the time.
So just be yourself and allow others to do the same, regardless if they find looks important or not.